I am thinking this is the right move for me. Not as retaliation but to quit bending so much. We have agreed upon meeting spots for drop off/exchanges. At first that is how it always went. Lately, more and more I am asked to drive all the way to her place (30 minutes one way). I don't mind helping out in a pinch, but when I show up there she is simply sitting on the couch. Not like she had other things to do, just laziness and using me.

I just think personally (I may be wrong) that this is a good place to start. Just remind her that we agreed upon locations and her appartment wasn't one of them?


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home