Guys understand me that she kept the girls away for 6 weeks. She didnt give a $%$# if they didnt see me. Not necessarily true. From what Im reading, it isnt that she didnt care. It's that she was worried about your actions and reactions. It sounds like you have done nothing but harass her since she left.
I am sure my 9 month daughter is able to stand now, and i missed it. But Friday, she just offered you a chance to see them, and you turned it down.
Now that she just wants the easy way out in order to divorce she wants to come to agreement for visitation? No! I am not playing her game anymore. Im sorry, but its not a game. This is real life. And I dont know, but I think youre really putting your future rights in jeopardy right now with your actions.
I waited patiently all this 6 weeks and all i got was me getting depressed, So, let's say youre at the deli counter. And you wait an hour. Finally, they call your number. And you go up to them and say "your service [censored], Im not waiting here anymore. Im going to another store." How does that make any sense at all? How does that get you what you want?
she is treating me like a disposable object and throwing me to the trash, someone that doesnt have feelings. Yes. I agree. But what does that have to do with seeing your children?
The reason i didnt want to meet was because i dont trust her anymore. I have my meeting with my lawyer today. I want my rights as a father, the legal way, not her way. But why on earth would you not sit down and understand what she is offering. Why start a fight you might not even need to have? All that youve done is put her squarely opposite you. Youre trying to play poker when she already knows the cards in your hand!
