regarding your house, I am fumbling with the same thing right now as I am coming to find out there is a lot more equity than i thought. Normally a good problem, but now i will have to pay W her share. Dont know how i can do this. I am hoping she will be flexible with this and open to be creative.

As far as the OM thing. I drives me insane also, i put it out of my mind and i know my kids will never replace me with anyone. I havea feeling they would reject him. I also then think my wife has to have these same thoughts about another woman replacing her as well.

just try to put it out of your head.

I know hard

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15