I am looking for advise regarding my w eventually having some other man in the house with my kids. The thought of someone other than me raising my children keeps me up at night. I don't think I will ever be able to handle this.

Have any of you faced and concurred this sitch?

M:39
W:40
S:10
S:7
D:12
BD:3/5/15
Separate BR:3/5/15
W moved out with kids 1/3/16