Don't beat your self up for not being able to let go as much as you would like. I have been battling through this sitch for almost a year now and I still have a hard time letting go. W tells me at least once a week that there is no hope for our M. That always sends me into trying to talk her out of her decision. I don't have a lot of advise but I do completely understand the pain and heavy heart. I also get mad at myself for hanging on her every move. Her family tells me I have no choice but to continue to love her through this. Its just so emotionally draining and every time I think im reaching a point of acceptance something happens and puts me right back at square one.
The things I am learning on this site make perfect sense and it doesn't seem that the rules would be hard to follow but they are. Keep your head up and try to focus on yourself.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16
