As you know I have little knowledge of piecing. The issue of the ADS is interesting though. Why did she run out of ADS? It is so important to her wellbeing, seems strange.
I keep my essential meds up to date and even my spare has a spare. So WW seems so casual about it. Has she refilled now?
You mentioned ML a little while ago, what made you connect on that occasion? Would a break away together help, a pattern interrupt? You once organised dates, skating if my notes are correct on this. Has anything like that been planned recently? Are you using wooing techniques at all?
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She's usually pretty good about keeping her meds filled. She just dropped the ball this time. Of course, it was right before a weekend so there's little she could do about it immediately.
The ML was, well, disappointing. We had a good day together, so I took a chance and initiated, she responded positively. No foreplay, straight to the main course, over in a few minutes. Totally pointless. Then she had a meltdown a few days later, lamenting that she's "not sexual". Yeah, I'm really enjoying this involuntary celibacy. You'd think she'd at least acknowledge that.
There's always an excuse why we can't go out; money, she doesn't feel well, too tired, the kids have something going on, yada yada yada. We'll go out on "dates" in a way; we'll take the time to get in the car by ourselves away from the kids, but it usually involves errands or something like that. Actual dates where we act like a freaking couple, even when sex is not expected, are too much "pressure" for her.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
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