So I was debating that this weekend, then I see flight's post and I am like maybe I should try something different.
I understand. But I think that you are just being impatient.
Originally Posted By: pinn
I don't think that I am thinking about changing course based on emotions here. I think I do a fairly good job of removing emotions the best I can, but that's also why I come here before making moves :-). I do think that NC was my best shot, especially during the first 2-3 months after she left. But when does that not become the best shot anymore? Know what I mean? 4,5,6 months? Eternity? I feel like we are in stalemate here (mind reading I know, she might just not be thinking about me at all). In the book, it suggests trying something and waiting for a response. OK... so the no contact has been going for a while with no response. Is it time for a change of pace?
OK. So let's play this forward. What contact do you propose making?