Re: She Wants Me to Leave....3rd Time in 4 Years 2

[isittoolate]

Mr Bond - Thanks for taking the time to read my thread.

You are correct. I am not very good at seduction, flirting, etc and am relatively shy around girls unless I have a drink inside me. I am slightly (not wholly) introverted with a small group of close friends (all male). Most of my female friends are other school moms, or spouses of male friends, family, and one or two from my time in London.

I understand my failings and know if we do Reconcile I will have to change and step up to the plate. I need to learn to flirt, seduce, initiate and be more romantic. Will I get the chance? Maybe.

The sex toys and sexy lingerie were joint ideas but buying the stuff is easy. Using it is harder especially when I dont even know which cupboard she has stored them in!

Today W rang me and explained that she hadnt rung me at the weekend due to no phone signal. This is partially true but she could have rang with a little effort. The truth is it wasn't a priority for her as her priority is to escape the sitch at home. She had the best nights sleep for 3 weeks.

I was a little morose last night as I had had a few beers with friends watching a soccer game. I am feeling more positive this morning and have drafted a letter to give to W when the timing is right.

The correct timing will be when resentment and rebellion are reduced or gone. It will be handwritten.

I wrote her a letter back in 2012 when we separated briefly for 3 weeks and I know she keeps it in the bedside draw along with many of my Valentines, Xmas, Anniversary and Birthday cards I have sent over the years.

After reconciliation on 2012 she stated the letter had influenced her thinking so I will write another. Timing is crucial.