What you described about going to sex shops, buying things, etc., isn't FLIRTING. She wants to be SEDUCED. She wants you to make love to her head not her body. When you do that, you are going to do two things... One, it will give her the SPICE she craves and it will give you the QT you want.
You've heard it said that a woman's desire is like a candle, whereas a man's is like a light switch. That's what she wants and needs often.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.