Funny, my wife did the same thing with the pictures and social media, I noticed it a year ago actually. But silly me, didnt read into it very well.

I wanted to come here and try and help you out! But from just one post I see a lot of similarities with our situations.

I will be back to try and help with goals! But the default advice I keep getting is set a goal for yourself, not the R. She seems focused on herself, which isn't wrong until it becomes destructive. And I wish I knew what would snap her out something like that.

M: 29 W: 28
D: 8 S:1
M: 10 T: 11
BD1: 8//15 (physically separate)
Back together: 4/16
BD2: 3/18, physically separate 6/18)
Here we are again.