That sounds like a brave and genuine message from her Dad to me. And I'm glad for her if that's the case - though it may have been hard to read. I would encourage her to respond in a positive way if she feels able, and to keep that channel open for him. Some of what he said reminded me of Lou R's H. He knows what he would like to do - but there is a lot of stuff that needs working through first.
Take care xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus