Thanks Fogg, your post on your thread about distancing really struck a cord with me. I think I did some of that. I will reflect and let you know.
I love my wife with all my heart just the way she is, faults and all. I owe it to my wife and children to keep evolving and be the best husband/dad I can be. Adapting or changing is needed for growth to occur. I should have realized this a very long time ago. Better late then never. Be well my friend.