At the moment there is only resentment from W. Its growing - like a cancer. Our M has never had this except after the BD's. A M cannot grow in this environment.
Giving her what she wants is counter-intuitive but will release the tension, reduce or eliminate the resentment.Its detachment. Its distancing.

Then as time goes on separation becomes real,it focuses her mind. Does she want this? Maybe yes. OK we separate. I am still the Father of our boys, she still wants me to have a full and active role in their lives, she doesnt want to damage them. Ultimately a D will damage us all.

I will use it as a LRT.

Last edited by isittoolate; 10/25/15 07:38 PM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16