OK, I know it doesn't sound positive, but if she's taking aim at you, she still cares, otherwise, she'd just shrug it off. As you say, why would you want to talk to a complete stranger about your relationship, if you didn't think there was something to talk about.
An odd positive, but what you're doing is working. I thought at the start if my W got upset at my 'improvements' it wasn't working. I got put right on that one, so press on. Well done that man!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015