Zero steps forward

[Pax_luv]

Hi mr bond-
Thanks for responding. Yes, I've read dr many times. I was the begger/pleader/cryer and that was the first thing I stopped.

I'm not detached at all, plus we've been amicable and respectful so it's hard for me to let go.... Especially when I'm not ready... Also, I'm a caretaker and nurturer so the LRT kind of goes against my nature. I get that I can lovingly detach and that's what I'm trying to do. So that's been my 100% biggest struggle. I'm a fighter and it's sooohard for me to sit back and do nothing to try to help this thing.