I appriciate the feedback, I do in a way think that some of my feelings are based on spite. But also based on taking a stand on being disrespected. I have so far sat back and taken a lot off of my chin and she has not had to answer for any of it.

In a way I don't think it would be in my character to do something like tell her to get her stuff out. But it would be a big 180 for me to take a stand and show that I won't be a piñata anymore?

I will take it day by day and see if my feelings on it change at all. Right now I feel like I am being used yet again.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home