6 months in the storm

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My goals seem to be working, I know, no expectations. I do feel better about myself lately and how I am handling S4 and STBXH.

We had another positive exchange yesterday when I picked up S4, I tried to be quick with a breezy good bye, he stopped me on the way to the car to ask what we were doing the next day and if we are going to carve pumpkins. I just said we have plans and I haven't decided yet. He offered to carve 2 with him and bring one to my house. He hasn't asked what we are up to in at least a month. I even told him his arms were looking ripped since I know he has been seeing a trainer.

On the D front - My L emailed me last night stating it has been 2 weeks since we met and we still haven't received a single document or anything from STBXH and his L's. So we are submitting our 2 offers in writing to see what happens and I must say they are very good offers to me. I just hope this doesn't derail any progress made over the last week.