Uphill - I know you are extremely hurt by her taking that away from you. I have to agree with the others on not escalating the situation or reacting based on your feelings. If the stuff is in your way or a legitimate reasons for needing them gone, then that is a different story, if it is just to be spiteful, then I think you know what everyone on here will say to you. Try to get through this with grace and dignity, you are doing an amazing job so far.

I had to make treating STBXH with compassion one of my goals because he continues to do things involving S4 that hurts me. It has helped me react to the situation.


Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15