Hi, back from food shopping. We used to do it together. Now I do it alone to get it done and have more time for my interests during the day. I have no delusion that acts of service will solve my problems. What I hope is that from it I can find another piece of the puzzle.
I'm a hands on guy. I work the problem, evaluate and tweak the design, inspect the parts, make improvements and solve the problem. For the last 9 months besides working on myself all I could do is watch from the sidelines as my marriage imploded. I know this will not fix it but I need to do something. Making myself as independent as I can will never hurt me. If I do a few things for her along the way it gives me balance and the knowledge that I did the right thing for the mother of my children.
