what do you guys think? Should i meet up with her and settle my visitations that she will most likely try to manipulate like always. should i speak up and tell her that she is emotionally abusing my daughter and that needs to stop now. Or should i not give in to her demands , like ive always had on my 5 year relationship and just wait for my lawyer and surprise her by serving her. And telling the courts she is emotionally abusing my daughter.