After last night, it's probably all over. He cannot understand that I am upset over him just walking out. He worships his dad who walked out on the family when my H was around 9. If he wanted to be just like his dad, he's certainly taken that next step of abandoning his wife/family (although the kids are just stepkids). I wish he'd take the time to ask his mom how it felt to have your husband walk out; maybe he'd understand it coming from her.