Quote: He has also developed this new angle of everything that's wrong in our marriage. Of course, most of the new angle is 100% my fault.
the fact that he's talking to you about it is a good thing...even if what's coming out of his mouth is not so good.
I know you've said he's not likely to turn around but I urge you to read dr anyway it may be helpful to you. heck you don't even have to buy it you can sit at the book store and read most of it there.
and for what it's worth my h left once too...was gone for more than 6 months...was sure he wasn't coming back...it was all my fault..yada yada yada and eventually a light bulb went off in his head and he realized it wasn't all my fault and he came home is more loving and attentive than he ever was before. now if I could only get the lightbulb in his pants to stay lit .
it's a shitty thing to have to go through but either way you can and will survive.
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