There wasn't any warning. Basically her mood changed in the time it took me to run an errand. She later explained to me that an article had run across her FB feed..."7 things I wished I knew before getting married", or something like that. She liked the article until she read the last line where the author said that despite everything, she still wanted to grow old with her husband. My W got depressed when she realized that she wasn't sure she could say that about our M.
These happen about once a month....much less often than they used to. She had accidentally run out of her antidepressants a couple of days ago and hasn't been able to get it refilled. I'm sure accidentally going cold turkey off her meds didn't help her emotional state.
Her basic script is the same...she loves me, wants to make things work, but is sexually unresponsive to me....we don't have that "connection" she needs to become sexual with me; she's terrified of living her life without that.
I can just about have both sides of this conversation myself. Same script..no new insights, no new ideas, same stuff, different day.
As you know I have little knowledge of piecing. The issue of the ADS is interesting though. Why did she run out of ADS? It is so important to her wellbeing, seems strange.
I keep my essential meds up to date and even my spare has a spare. So WW seems so casual about it. Has she refilled now?
You mentioned ML a little while ago, what made you connect on that occasion? Would a break away together help, a pattern interrupt? You once organised dates, skating if my notes are correct on this. Has anything like that been planned recently? Are you using wooing techniques at all?
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Last edited by Vanilla; 10/25/1511:02 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
