So I just tripped up a bit a little while ago. Back when all this began, XF and I said no matter what neither one of us would take any of our problems to social media or remove each other because that way we can "share" photos of S4 and the other party can stay up to date so to speak.
She did not hold up to her end of the bargain... I confronted her by text message. Not nasty but asking what was going on. Her response was that she doesn't have to answer to anybody and a bunch of other talking in circles.
Long story short, I no longer have that "connection" into S4's life. She see no problem with that. My last message to her said that the way I have been treated these past 9 months has been a real eye opener. If she senses that she is being treated in a similar fashion moving forward not to bother asking me why because I won't be answering to anybody.
I know, 2x4 needed! I was raised that a persons word is gold. I trust way too easily. But I expect to be trusted and respected in return. When I say something I stay true to my word, if somebody tells me something I expect the same in return. It is a very touchy subject to me and as much as I knew I shouldn't say a word I couldn't keep my trap shut.
Uphill -1 for the week
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home