Got tired of the title of the old thread... time for a change.
Sandi, I read your post in my old thread. My wife was definitely guilty of some of those things you mention, not all though. For future relationships (either with her or not), how do I deal with signs of disrespect? For example, my wife is an eye roller. Drove me crazy. Not just to me, it's what she does. I've seen her do it with her family. So she had developed that behavior before me. I told her repeatedly not to do it. But it was/is wired in her brain. We all have behaviors that are wired in our brain and it is very difficult to stop unless we become conscious of them. How should I have handled that situation?
