Your friend sounds wise. I admit, I admire your H for recognizing he is still working through things and keeping you away from that. We have seen how messy it gets when they come back too soon....
I agree with others that this is the most important time to take it slow. Stay focused and busy, you got this
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-