Midlife Crisis and Emotional Affair

[Pax_luv]

Hi Lost,
I just happened to come across your thread and am reeling over the similarities between our situations. I'm sorry you are going through this. It seems bonkers to throw in the towel so soon into a lifelong commitment, doesn't it? This is that "for better or for worse" clause in the contract.

Over the last 18 months, It wasn't that clear to me that my h could have been going through MLC because he was blaming me for EVERYTHING and I kind of just took it, curled into a ball and died a little bit... It wasn't until we physically separated that the tension could just break. I've been working on myself and have been DBing since June, and now that I'm removed from the sitch( not yet detached) I can see how loopy h's behavior has been. This is hands down the hardest thing I've ever had to go through.... Just wanted you to know that I truly sympathize with you and I hope the best for you and am sending you strength!