I guess what is hurting the most is that it'll be done on my money. My income has been 2-3, if not 4 times hers for a large number of years (plus an inheritance on my side) and so the 50-50 split the law seems to dictate, hurts as it's mainly me that made it and she'll squander it on some dream that isn't even hers.
Ah well, it is said by the wise that the best thing in life is to make your money then give it away, that's where I'll have to get my mindset to. Then go and make it all over again, only bigger so I'll have more to give to more deserving causes.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?