Tinydoc's first post, 5 months in.

[TDball]

Had to bump. He still won't let me see the dog and won't discuss it. I feel like this has put us in another limbo. My L is just holding the papers. I don't want to give in to him and give up on seeing her forever, but I don't want to take him to court for custody, so he is essentially putting a hold on this divorce that he so badly wants. I don't think he's doing that subconsciously or consciously- I think he thinks he can just take what he wants and that's it. In his head we're already divorced.

I did realize that I went two days this week without really thinking about him! I have been really enjoying my team at work this week, and one of them I'm almost flirting with (we only work together for a week, so I think it's okay). I forgot that flirting can be fun, I haven't done it in a while.

I was inspired by EPs thread and have started to work on my goals, I will hopefully post them soon.