Hi Mutatio, I think that convo with your W above was telling. To me her reaction to you was one of someone who had to respond out of politeness (because your D's were around) but would rather not have to interact with you at all.

I would echo what other posters have said about the in-house S and whether this is working for you guys? Perhaps it is time for you to think about options for yourself. I'm not saying there isn't any hope - who knows how things may progress - but I think perhaps a change to the new status quo may be needed...

Take care my friend xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus