Hey I started world war 3

So after us going out as a family shopping, which after I realize was manipulated into going, as her conversation started with, well you will say no anyways... she wanted to go to a store, I needed something at that store, she has the only membership. so we went.

Came home I put the kids to bed then we watched tv separately, I watched the movie American Beauty.

I was inspired to take back the master bedroom.

I got into my side of the bed and she starts telling me to get out, I tell her if she is the one wanting separation she can get out but as of now I am sleeping in my side of the bed. She didn't like that, saying for now just go back into the spare bedroom and we will talk about it later. I said no, yesterday one of the kids told the babysitter that she cant sleep over tonight because daddy is sleeping in the spare bedroom because he sleeps beter in there, and that I only sleep next to mommy if family sleepover and then they sleep in the spare bed room. Well this was two months ago I said that and he remembers every word. I told this to my W and I said this should be your guilt and your lie because you want separation you should be in the spare bedroom and you can tell the kids what you want.

It got to the point that she refused to sleep in the spare bedroom, first she said she was going to call the cops and get a fake charge given to me. Saying it looked real bad for me to enter her room when she was in bed and didn't leave. I said I didn't touch you and I still have clothes on. Then she said whell who do you think they will believe. I said this is my house too and I can sleep anywhere I want. then she started to say well I don't fel comfortable in the hoiuse with you and I am worried what you are going to say to the children about us separating I am taking the kids to my parents, I said isn't that more tramitizing taking the kids now at night then just you going in a different room to sleep? Its your choice if you realy don't want to sleep in the spare bedroom that badly, you could go on the couch. I called her bluff and said its your choice but I am sleeping in the MBR now. She said you have made the separation decision easy good luck seeing your kids now. She said its not about sleeping in the spare bedroom its about me going into the MBR getting in bed and not leaving. Do you know how crazy you are looking right now?

She packed some clothes and left with the kids its three hours now and have not heard back. I texted to find out if they made it to her parents house ok, Still nothing.

Not sure what to do now. She snapped. Made me enemy no 1. is willing to lie to make me look crazy, and has said she will do that so that I wont see my kids.





Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016