Thank you! I'm speechless, really. I consciously worked very hard on my marriage, and you are right, no one can take that away from me. I'm just trying to get to a place where I can appreciate that, accept it and move forward. God help me! I hope I can get there at some point.
I have read much of your thread Zeus. You are doing an amazing job. I'm sorry your wife is in so much pain that she cannot see what you are doing for her. I'm discovering that pain makes people do things that are unimaginable. As much pain as we are feeling, I can't imagine the kind of pain it would take for me to give up my 30 year marriage.
Thank you again for your kind words! I really needed them today.
