Wow, mind is blown 9

[asitis]

Don't remove yourself from the pub just because of that. Enjoy a bit of attention. Just keep in mind that you are vulnerable to that leading somewhere you'll regret. You probably could use little flirting refresher anyway, and hopefully that will help w/ the XF at some point. I know I sure needed a refresher and then some after 17 years. Wish I had had that insight about 10 or 15 years ago, and then every few years thereafter. One lesson I'm definitely learning for future Rs (w/ W or others) is to never stop flirting. Ever. I would seduce, but that's different at least somewhat different.