What you did in your M was what I wished for in my lifetime. He may not have appreciated it. He may not have reciprocated. He may not even have accepted. But all you can do is play your cards, and you did what you know is right. No one can ever take that away, and you should never have any regrets about that, regardless of how it worked out.

Of course it's ok to be upset. I am. At society. The legal system. And the people that do this to each other. But I can sleep because I am doing what I believe is right. There has been suffering and injustice since we began. Our legacy won't be that we were spared. It will be what we contributed.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15