Thanks guys. I do hope she gets it figured out soon. We all want that.
Mutatio, I agree that I shouldn't be waiting around on her. I have been, but I feel like I am doing more for myself and the boys now. I have plans for Sunday after the kids go to W. I have to go out of town for work Monday and Tuesday. Have kids Wednesday and Thursday, dinner plans for Friday (if I don't do Halloween for s4). My BIL'S dad has a plane, and is going to take us up sometime soon, if the scheduling works out. And my family that has the farm is always working on something that will keep me occupied.
So, my free time is filling up. It's nice to have stuff to look forward to, be excited about, and feel accomplished with. Still hope she will catch up to me, but I know I can deal without her if I have to. Life is much less comfortable without seeing my kids daily and worrying about money, but I will survive.
Thanks all
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....