Neither I nor V. is absolutely right, it's what's right for you that is important and you've worked that out which is great news.
Your conversation with your H sounds good, make sure you end it , don't give him he privilege and cut it short too, keep him wanting more.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
