It's been 2 weeks since I've moved out, and I've only had very limited contact with my WW. Every time I see a message from her, it's never good. She did, however send me a few pictures and a video of our dog playing. For a moment it felt nice that she was nice.
I went over our old condo to pick up some of the last of my things and was surprised to find that she was redecorating, new linen, wall paintings, etc... It actually upset me a little, wow how fast was that. Like it's an exciting time for her to be able redecorate the house. That brought me down a bit.
Looking for advice about a text message I received today from WW. I've been Going Dark for 2 weeks now with the exception of 1 text message about the dog and her asking me for the house keys. Today, she sent me and angry text telling me to stop talking to friends about what happen. She says I'm throwing her under the bus and she is getting a bad reputation as a cheater who betrayed her husband.
She asked me to stop talking to friends about what happen, because she doesn't. Want us to get ugly. She basically said she will list all her grievances to everyone. I know she just trying to save her "good girl" rep, as her A has really shocked some people as well as her family. She tried to keep it a secret, but I have told my closest friends about what happen, and the word has gotten out.
How should I respond to her text asking me to "be the gentlemen I've always been" and not tell anyone anymore?
Me - 34 W - 34 T- 4 M- 2 No Kids BD - 4/18/15 ILYBNILWY EA/possible PA 06/20/15 Seperated 09/28/15
