Thanks guys, those posts mean a lot to me. I appreciate your caution Avanti but I have to agree with V. I just understand the goals now and have so many other ways I an work on but I do agree with you steps at a time.
My friend was served her papers today while I was on the phone with her. The crappy part of it all is that he told her that he told his L to serve her today knowing that she is taking career licensing exam tomorrow. She can't focus or study now and probably won't pass. She finally packed up her stuff to leave him. I would normally not push for her to leave but for him to but in this case I do feel it is best that she go somewhere he doesn't know about.
Anyway on the positive note - I am working on my validating STBXH. He asked if he could drop off S4 to me early because his boss wanted to meet with him. I suspected it was because they may want to promote him, he agreed. He just TM me to see how S4 was doing. He's been sick
H: Can you keep me updated on S4? M: (waited 15 min) Normal temp . Was your meeting what you expected? H: yes (nice, care to elaborate?) M: Good for you! I guess we both had great work days today. It's about time they saw what an asset they had. H: What's new at work with you?
Convo still going...I guess that's good right? Usually he ignores me
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15