You continue to obey your wife. I know that it is hard to unlearn this behavior, but you have to start doing what vise wants, not what your W wants.
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W has a friend that needs her dog looked after for the weekend.
It's Ws friend. Why would even think of doing this errand for her?
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Thoughts keep popping in my head about the wedding she is going to, I am trying to convince my self this might be a turning point for my W.
These thoughts are not helpful and are hindering your progress. You can't make them stop, but you can give them less importance. Definitely a cheeseless tunnel, as you put it.
