I am at a stuck point my wife wants me to be more nice but I am trying to back out of her life because she fired me as her H.I am replying to texts nicely instead of ignoring them. Maybe it too soon. As everyone says I need to start taking care of me and my kids. W has a friend that needs her dog looked after for the weekend. she hasn't asked yet but has hinted. I think I am going to say no, then I am sure I will get the anger treatment.
Thoughts keep popping in my head about the wedding she is going to, I am trying to convince my self this might be a turning point for my W. As temptation will be there as she will be gone for two nights and there has already talk about the best man being interested in her. This is a choice she will have to make to be faithful or not. Its one thing to ask for separation to see if her feeling come back. But to cross the line of a cheating while separated and living in the same house.
I just feel I am lucky that I don't know of any PA. I am hoping that it stays that way. It was like when she kept the rings on, it gave me hope, allowing me to positively continue on. I know this is a cheese less tunnel but with each betrayal I am able to detach more.
Just like the separation agreement, I have asked her to do one and have not seen anything yet. It up to her she doesn't need me to start the agreement. this gives me hope.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
