Msd...I often get judged and reprimanded for doing something that H has no problem doing himself. It is so strange to me now that I wound up in a "child" position in my M. The issue never had to be big, either. For example, he never put his tools away when he completed a task. He'd just leave them lying wherever. But Lord forbid I would use a screwdriver and not put it up right away! Then I became lazy and a bad housekeeper.
How did I not see this? I'm pretty sure I did, but refused to acknowledge it...which led to my struggle with severe depression. The light is beginning to brighten and allow me to see what was really happening in my M. It's bringing me no joy whatsoever, but I am gaining some acceptance.
