It has make me question my perception in all of this. I mean, my W has told me she is moving forward, likes this guy, and is going to see where it leads. I mean, how much more do I need in order for me to let her go? I guess that's something I need to explore.
I have totally been there. In past conversations, my H has asked me, "why do you even want to be with someone who tells you straight to your face that he doesn't want you?" The reality is, we may love them, but someone who treats us in such a manner doesn't deserve to be wanted right now, and we need to have enough self respect to pick ourselves up and walk away from that.
I realized I *don't* want my H right now. I want my H from before all this happened. But he isn't here right now. Until/Unless he returns, I am losing nothing by letting this imposter H go, because he is not the man I love anyway.
Well said, why would you want to be with someone who tells you this to your face or lies, etc... We all deserve someone who will treat us with love and dignity.
We must show self respect right now more than ever!
