how can i not sound vengeful ? I know that my daughters are not in danger. But the way they are discipline will have an impact when they are older. They might turn abusive to their own husbands, because mom thought them to be. I wouldnt want that. I also dont want to tear her apart. Because i know if I take the daughters away, she will hate me forever. I am in the middle. IT IS STRESSING. I WILL KEEP PRAYING FOR GUIDANCE.