UH - Yeah, it bites. Mine told me a couple months ago that she didnt feel like she belonged anywhere because he had to keep shuffling off to different places all the time. I said that just think about it like he has two families now: one on mommys side and one on daddys side. Instead of not having any families, now he had TWO families.

Originally Posted By: dday
I always tell them I love them, and would do anything to make us a whole family again.


Sorry to hijack, but, ugh, dont say this. This puts the blame squarely on your W. The kids are too young to be taking sides, and you dont want them to be resentful towards their mom. That will stick with them the rest of their lives.