For me it's about not being dragged into that circular argument that keeps abuse going and means I don't get my needs met or my point across

It happens to me often when I need to negotiate what I want. I keep forgetting my line above. Making sure the other party knows they are heard.

Last edited by Ggrass; 10/23/15 07:30 AM.
M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26