Small update… I was preparing to e-mail my GF and her H at the vacation place about the accommodations on the weekend I want to be at the condo (which was one of the dates I asked H about.) I was not counting on the condo to be available, since H told me that he would most likely be there… And then, out of the blue, I got text from H, telling me that I can plan on having condo on that weekend I was asking about. I was surprised and excited! It is making my life so much easier! I texted back asking about the exact dates, since I want to be there for the extended weekend and work remotely for a day or two. He said that it would be fine and “I will figure something out”. So, sent a very emotional response back (this is how I felt at the moment, very excited), thanking him for this and saying that I hope that it would be not too much inconvenience for him… and how excited I am to go to the vacation home…
He replied back saying that he will probably be on the road somewhere anyway.
Wow! I totally didn’t expect that. I though he is trying to maintain the possession of the condo. But… it looks like he thought about my e-mail and wanted to let me know that I could stay at the condo before I would make any other plans.
All I can say that I’m so excited that I don’t have to make any other arrangements! This makes me think that deep down H is still a nice guy. Which… makes my detachment harder… I think that if he would be a nasty MLCer, I would get over it quicker. Just saying…
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state