I actually have read some of your posts on ancaires thread, and then I started reading up on your earlier threads. It is eerie how similar your early experiences are to mine. Husbands stone walling, and selfishness, possible or probable alcoholism, Very similar financial issues, the way you were searching to figure out your role in dealing with someone that had just mentally detached.
I have also read your last thread, and you currently possess so much dignity and grace. I am impressed that you have went through such hardships. The way you have carried yourself while daily having to deal with OW is truly inspirational.
I still have to finish reading all your middle threads though. If you don't mind my asking, why did you guys end up with a 50/50 custody arrangement?
Julie
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
