still havent heard from my wife

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Is this the retreat she dragged you to that you fell asleep in? Yeah, I'm sure that plan will go well. Why would you try to manipulate her by sending something now she wrote when trying to fix the M? One minute its you weren't there for her, the next its she was never there for you.

Maybe you should stop focusing on her issues and back onto your own and let go of that fear of losing her. Is your priority your kids and their safety or is it holding onto a M that's already dead?

There has never been any abuse or anything in the family.

Really? Seems to conflict here with what you already told us

I need advise on what should i do. Should i go 50/50 custody or should i go for 100% custody. The reason being is that there has been several situation where she is emotionally and psychologically damaging my daughters. And maybe this is the only way for her to realize?

Why care or do something now about it? It seems this was an ongoing thing from the past so I'm curious why all of a sudden its now important enough to get help for.

I am no scared of her anymore. i will not allow her to manipulate me anymore.

I think there's more than one person who did the manipulating.

Regardless of the above, if you feel your kids are in danger than do something about it and stop worrying how it will change the outcome of your M.