I understand the confusion. I just had a conversation with my mother in which H was referred to in terms of old H and new H. We don't much like the new version. Remembering the old one hurts so much, it's hard to breathe.

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti