I agree with you both except I don't believe there is a EA/PA. I have no evidence and I know that isnt 'proof' but it is all I can go on without calling in a P.I. or asking her outright (of course she would deny - but she is a terrible liar and has a huge guilt complex)
It maybe slightly more complex as well because early in our relationship she suggested that she was abused as a child by her father. She never opened up about it and i let the matter drop as I still had to see her father in family events.
Our emotional and sexual disconnect started 7 years ago when I was an a**hole, a self centred passive aggressive who didnt support her when she needed it. I changed 4 yearss ago but we never addressed the sex problems.
So here we are.
Last edited by isittoolate; 10/22/1508:44 PM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
